CONTACT: Happy to chat when I'm available! Unscreened ooc dropbox, or discord via the player contact page :)
WRITING: Whatever works for you, bub. I default to 3rd person, present tense and enjoy gdocs or threading, but can switch it up.
BACKTAGGING: Yes please. I am catastrophically slow at comment RP and get overwhelmed quick. Feel free to tap me about dropped stuff.
THREADHOPPING: Go for it, but I do not do it, myself. If you want me to show up to something I'm not already in, please link me directly OOC. I am a vampire and will not interrupt a conversation that my character is not already a part of unless specifically invited ooc or the vibe is very obviously a large group chat, even if my character is name dropped. I am not exaggerating lmao it's a wonder I ever make activity.
PRIVATE FILTERS: If a post is bumping, I totally don't mind at all (I love when a post I make becomes a massive shitpost). Once the post has died down though, please move extremely long private messages (like 40+ replies) to IC spam/another post. Just for my mailbox, mostly. I appreciate it!
SENSITIVE TOPICS: I will curate my own experience and will not engage with or will dip from things that make me uncomfortable. Appreciate standard TWs, though. If it comes up, please put pictures of spiders under a cut/as a hyperlink and not an embed, and add a warning in a post if there are pictures in comments. I appreciate it so much thank you. ;A;
IC SENSITIVE TOPICS: Loss of a loved one. Gavin Waldinger and his various romantic trysts. Liminals as a danger. "Normal" Human Behavior. This all said, Parson's powers effectively give him a mini ego death every time he hitches to someone, and as a consequence he tends to ... not react in the ways one might expect.
SMUT: I max out at PG-13 in prose. Fade 2 Black for hornie scenes. Totally fine with discussing what happened/the nature of a relationship OOC, though.
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PHYSICAL CONTACT: Absolutely does not mind. Accustomed to being treated like a fashion doll/brick wall/pork chop. Physically affectionate, likes to rough house, but is very, very respectful of boundaries and will not invade unless invited.
CONFLICT: Parson is historically a people-pleaser, but since The Accident, has become markedly more combative, unwilling to be a doormat. He tends to vacillate between conflict avoidance and setting very firm boundaries, but he's not out here picking fights. Either way, this is likely a jarring change for those who know him.
OOC note: I will allow my characters to ride to complete and irreversible emotional ruin in an It's A Small World boat if that's where their arc is going, but I never, ever want to disrupt someone else's plot or make someone else uncomfortable. I will do my best to reach out to you OOC before doing anything brash. Please just hit me up if a plot is not going in a direction you're comfortable with!!
VIOLENCE: Accustomed to roughhousing but generally pretty gentle. Will typically not throw the first punch in conflict, but will not back down from a fight, and is not afraid to hop into a brawl to back up a pal.
BADMOUTHING: I don't mind, and Parson probably doesn't mind, either. Ego death, grief, etc. I usually keep my own badmouthing RP to public, unfiltered posts; it's an open invitation to call my character out!!
SHIPPING, CRUSHES, ROMANCE: Parson is bi, out, and proud (of his terrible taste in men). Gay awakening was 100% Tim Curry's smog monster in FernGully sorry not sorry. He is generally dtf, and is active on a few dating apps. Parson lost the man who he was pretty sure was going to be The One back in December 2022, and subsequently had that man's personality fuse with his own. Suffice it to say, genuine romantic overtures may cause him to evaporate. You've got to trick him with a box, a stick, some string, and a piece of cheese.
OOC note: I like to play flirtatious characters and characters who sleep around. Sometimes my characters will get crushes that are meant to evaporate, but I tend to go pt pt pt pt pt MEEP MEEP pew when I sense actual romo lmfao I'm sorry. I'm unable to be normal. That said, I'm open to shipping, but the vibes have to be just right, and I am not ready to ship until I'm comfortable with my character and feel that they've got an established social circle first.
PERMISSIONS
WRITING: Whatever works for you, bub. I default to 3rd person, present tense and enjoy gdocs or threading, but can switch it up.
BACKTAGGING: Yes please. I am catastrophically slow at comment RP and get overwhelmed quick. Feel free to tap me about dropped stuff.
THREADHOPPING: Go for it, but I do not do it, myself. If you want me to show up to something I'm not already in, please link me directly OOC. I am a vampire and will not interrupt a conversation that my character is not already a part of unless specifically invited ooc or the vibe is very obviously a large group chat, even if my character is name dropped. I am not exaggerating lmao it's a wonder I ever make activity.
PRIVATE FILTERS: If a post is bumping, I totally don't mind at all (I love when a post I make becomes a massive shitpost). Once the post has died down though, please move extremely long private messages (like 40+ replies) to IC spam/another post. Just for my mailbox, mostly. I appreciate it!
SENSITIVE TOPICS: I will curate my own experience and will not engage with or will dip from things that make me uncomfortable. Appreciate standard TWs, though. If it comes up, please put pictures of spiders under a cut/as a hyperlink and not an embed, and add a warning in a post if there are pictures in comments. I appreciate it so much thank you. ;A;
IC SENSITIVE TOPICS: Loss of a loved one. Gavin Waldinger and his various romantic trysts. Liminals as a danger. "Normal" Human Behavior. This all said, Parson's powers effectively give him a mini ego death every time he hitches to someone, and as a consequence he tends to ... not react in the ways one might expect.
SMUT: I max out at PG-13 in prose. Fade 2 Black for hornie scenes. Totally fine with discussing what happened/the nature of a relationship OOC, though.
CONFLICT: Parson is historically a people-pleaser, but since The Accident, has become markedly more combative, unwilling to be a doormat. He tends to vacillate between conflict avoidance and setting very firm boundaries, but he's not out here picking fights. Either way, this is likely a jarring change for those who know him.
OOC note: I will allow my characters to ride to complete and irreversible emotional ruin in an It's A Small World boat if that's where their arc is going, but I never, ever want to disrupt someone else's plot or make someone else uncomfortable. I will do my best to reach out to you OOC before doing anything brash. Please just hit me up if a plot is not going in a direction you're comfortable with!!
VIOLENCE: Accustomed to roughhousing but generally pretty gentle. Will typically not throw the first punch in conflict, but will not back down from a fight, and is not afraid to hop into a brawl to back up a pal.
BADMOUTHING: I don't mind, and Parson probably doesn't mind, either. Ego death, grief, etc. I usually keep my own badmouthing RP to public, unfiltered posts; it's an open invitation to call my character out!!
SHIPPING, CRUSHES, ROMANCE: Parson is bi, out, and proud (of his terrible taste in men). Gay awakening was 100% Tim Curry's smog monster in FernGully sorry not sorry. He is generally dtf, and is active on a few dating apps. Parson lost the man who he was pretty sure was going to be The One back in December 2022, and subsequently had that man's personality fuse with his own. Suffice it to say, genuine romantic overtures may cause him to evaporate. You've got to trick him with a box, a stick, some string, and a piece of cheese.
OOC note: I like to play flirtatious characters and characters who sleep around. Sometimes my characters will get crushes that are meant to evaporate, but I tend to go pt pt pt pt pt MEEP MEEP pew when I sense actual romo lmfao I'm sorry. I'm unable to be normal. That said, I'm open to shipping, but the vibes have to be just right, and I am not ready to ship until I'm comfortable with my character and feel that they've got an established social circle first.